Feminists would have you believe different. To them, a woman is a rock at all times. She’s in control at work and at home, and no man can take that away from her.

But the truth is that women love a dominant man in bed. They don’t want some weak dude who is scared to try anything kinky. They don’t want a man who just lies there and waits for his girl to ride his dick.

They want a man who takes control and fucks them hard. They want a man who dominates them.

This is why 50 Shades Of Grey is so fucking popular. These books about female bondage have taken the world by storm – and it’s not men who’s reading them. Wherever you go, you see women on buses, trains, and in waiting rooms reading the controversial series.


What Type Of Woman Loves To Be Dominated?

Wanna know the strangest part? It’s the “strong” woman who loves to be dominated in bed more than any other. Research has showed this over and over again. Studies have found that sexually dominant men are more attractive to strong women. That socially dominant women are submissive in bed. That the strong woman in the office likes to come home and be well and truly fucked.

But why is this so?

The Reasons Women Love to be Dominated

Biology: sex and domination are linked

When it comes down to it, the most obvious reason women like to be dominated in bed is that they were born this way. It might sound controversial, but it’s actually simple biological truth. The role of a woman in bed, based on her sexual parts alone, is to be fucked, not the other way around.

Sex in its basic form is a man fucking a woman. She has to allow him to penetrate her in order to get full sexual pleasure. He has to jam his penis into her over and over again if they want to procreate.

But that’s not the only reason strong women love being dominated in bed.


Evolution: dominating men are more attractive

Evolution has created some scary fucking monsters. There’s the hot-pink millipede that oozes cyanide. The worm with a fucking squid for a head. A parrot that rips sheep open. Bird eating spiders and giant hornets.

When it comes to evolution, you can’t afford to be precious. If you believe in God, you can believe that he created you in line with morals and values. But evolution doesn’t give a flying fuck about your values.

Society is getting more egalitarian. Women are getting more opportunities in life, slowly closing the gap on the privileged man. But, again, evolution could care less about that.

In an evolutionary sense, women can’t help but love a dominant man. The reason sex exists is so that we can procreate and ensure survival of the species. But what type of child will most likely survive?

Women want a strong man in bed, because he’s more likely to give her a strong child. Someone who will survive whatever this merciless life throws at him. A weak man who doesn’t know what he wants will more likely give her a weak child, and that simply isn’t good enough.

Socially, women understand that survival these days is no longer about big muscles and aggression. But deep down, they still have that instinct to go after the powerful man. They’re not just willing to submit. They need a man to whom they can submit, for the sake of their children and the survival of the species.


Desire: women want men who show their lust

Other researchers provide a less subtle reason that women love to be dominated. As Jessica Wakeman of Your Tango says, “it’s not about pain. It’s about desire.”

When a woman comes home to a man who is tentative and hesitant about getting all up inside her, she might feel respected. But she doesn’t feel wanted. Yeah, yeah. Clearly he cares about her and her feelings. But when it comes to pure sexual impulses, that’s not good enough.

A woman wants a man to show her how much he wants her. She wants to come home and see his aggressive need for her. She wants a bulging dick in her face, throbbing with his unadulterated need for her.

A man who wants to possess her, to own every single piece of her, inside and out. That’s the sort of man a woman wants. That’s the guy who will turn her on. That’s the guy who can show how fucking amazing she is.


It’s Not About Social Dominance

It’s important for guys to remember that this is not about social dominance. A woman might love a powerful man in the bedroom. But when she’s out with friends or at a club, a man who won’t let her get a word in, or who undermines her, isn’t going to luck out.

While talking about your sexual fantasies can turn a woman on, trying to play them out on a social level will backfire.

So wait until you’re in the bedroom before trying to dominate her. Wait until she’s said she’s okay with it before you try anything too nasty.

And, as always, context is key. Don’t be a clueless dick.


  1. Every word of this article is true. As a young boy, as we all are, I was influenced by the leftist philosophy with gender equality and similar concepts. Which are good but when it came to a man woman relationship the whole concept changed. Most women were attracted to me because I was tall, went to gym regularly and bold. I mean generally bold in life. I would stand up for a cause and defend what was right. I was also polite to women. Letting them in first, opening doors and getting them a chair to sit was natural to me.

    In bed the egalitarian approached did not work. The same girls did not want equality. Few comments made me change my approach. “You are so bold but why do you loose confidence in bed?”, “I am delicately built, but don’t worry I will not break. I want to feel that male force in you inside.” And last was the long foreplay myth. True, women love foreplay, but there is a limit to that. I was necking around with a progressive woman and I did not expect that she would let me have sex with her on the first date. I had kissed her, played with her boobs for a long time and it was getting uneasy with and erection in my jeans and and took them off. The girl, when she saw my penis said, “This, this is what I wanted all this while”.
    So in conclusion, all the women I have met want a confident dominant man in bed. A man with a plan and someone who knows what he is doing. Love your woman make her feel special but don’t just stop there. Take her full force and do what you want with her body, press, kneed, suck, bite and pound her with all your make strength. Don’t worry about hurting her. That broad and plump butt is made to absorbe your powerful thrusts. Make no bones about what you want and how you want to take her tell her and do it to her shamelessly and express your pleasure with grunts and sighs.
    As a man you have to open your woman, so that she becomes participative. Appreciate what she does to you. “You get very naughty with my co*k in your mouth, you love sucking it you do it so well.”
    Even if she has had ten orgasms by fingering and licking you have to mount your female and fuck her, yes fuck her hard for her and your satisfaction. Remember a woman wants a hard cock from a man and she wants him to Fu*k her hard, as hard as you can.. And when you come make it sound like you came and hard where ever you come in her or all over her. If she tells you, “I feel so femenine with you.” You are doing it right..


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