Feminists would have you believe different. To them, a woman is a rock at all times. She’s in control at work and at home, and no man can take that away from her.
But the truth is that women love a dominant man in bed. They don’t want some weak dude who is scared to try anything kinky. They don’t want a man who just lies there and waits for his girl to ride his dick.
They want a man who takes control and fucks them hard. They want a man who dominates them.
This is why 50 Shades Of Grey is so fucking popular. These books about female bondage have taken the world by storm – and it’s not men who’s reading them. Wherever you go, you see women on buses, trains, and in waiting rooms reading the controversial series.
What Type Of Woman Loves To Be Dominated?
Wanna know the strangest part? It’s the “strong” woman who loves to be dominated in bed more than any other. Research has showed this over and over again. Studies have found that sexually dominant men are more attractive to strong women. That socially dominant women are submissive in bed. That the strong woman in the office likes to come home and be well and truly fucked.
But why is this so?
The Reasons Women Love to be Dominated
Biology: sex and domination are linked
When it comes down to it, the most obvious reason women like to be dominated in bed is that they were born this way. It might sound controversial, but it’s actually simple biological truth. The role of a woman in bed, based on her sexual parts alone, is to be fucked, not the other way around.
Sex in its basic form is a man fucking a woman. She has to allow him to penetrate her in order to get full sexual pleasure. He has to jam his penis into her over and over again if they want to procreate.
But that’s not the only reason strong women love being dominated in bed.
Evolution: dominating men are more attractive
Evolution has created some scary fucking monsters. There’s the hot-pink millipede that oozes cyanide. The worm with a fucking squid for a head. A parrot that rips sheep open. Bird eating spiders and giant hornets.
When it comes to evolution, you can’t afford to be precious. If you believe in God, you can believe that he created you in line with morals and values. But evolution doesn’t give a flying fuck about your values.
Society is getting more egalitarian. Women are getting more opportunities in life, slowly closing the gap on the privileged man. But, again, evolution could care less about that.
In an evolutionary sense, women can’t help but love a dominant man. The reason sex exists is so that we can procreate and ensure survival of the species. But what type of child will most likely survive?
Women want a strong man in bed, because he’s more likely to give her a strong child. Someone who will survive whatever this merciless life throws at him. A weak man who doesn’t know what he wants will more likely give her a weak child, and that simply isn’t good enough.
Socially, women understand that survival these days is no longer about big muscles and aggression. But deep down, they still have that instinct to go after the powerful man. They’re not just willing to submit. They need a man to whom they can submit, for the sake of their children and the survival of the species.
Desire: women want men who show their lust
When a woman comes home to a man who is tentative and hesitant about getting all up inside her, she might feel respected. But she doesn’t feel wanted. Yeah, yeah. Clearly he cares about her and her feelings. But when it comes to pure sexual impulses, that’s not good enough.
A woman wants a man to show her how much he wants her. She wants to come home and see his aggressive need for her. She wants a bulging dick in her face, throbbing with his unadulterated need for her.
A man who wants to possess her, to own every single piece of her, inside and out. That’s the sort of man a woman wants. That’s the guy who will turn her on. That’s the guy who can show how fucking amazing she is.
It’s Not About Social Dominance
It’s important for guys to remember that this is not about social dominance. A woman might love a powerful man in the bedroom. But when she’s out with friends or at a club, a man who won’t let her get a word in, or who undermines her, isn’t going to luck out.
While talking about your sexual fantasies can turn a woman on, trying to play them out on a social level will backfire.
So wait until you’re in the bedroom before trying to dominate her. Wait until she’s said she’s okay with it before you try anything too nasty.
And, as always, context is key. Don’t be a clueless dick.