Premature ejaculation – two words guaranteed to make even the most Adonis Alpha nervous. It’s one of those subjects that no one talks about and no one admits to; even not getting it up once or twice doesn’t have the same stigma attached to it – at least you can blame that on the booze, exhaustion or a big dinner, but with premature ejaculation there’s no acceptable excuse to help you shrug off the embarrassment and shame.
Blowing your load too quickly is one sex story nobody wants to share, there are few thing more emasculating than the look from a frustrated woman when you cum too quickly and the night’s fun is over before it even started.
The Silent Subject – I Cannot Last Long
Like I said before, premature ejaculation is just one of those subjects men don’t talk about – which is bizarre because a recent medical study concluded that between 75-80% of men will suffer from premature ejaculation at some point in their lives – so that’s most of us right?
So why the secrecy, why don’t men talk about it? Well it’s because it’s fucking embarrassing, no one wants to admit to not being able to satisfy a woman, to not being in control and being powerless. Also, there’s no real medical support to help – there’s an entire pharmaceutical industry set up to make sure you can get hard but you’re shit out of luck if you cum too quickly.
Once it Gets Into Your Head, Scream for Help
Here’s the thing with premature ejaculation – the more it happens the worse it gets. It’s a vicious cycle that can rip your confidence apart and shatter your nerves and there’s nothing less sexy to a woman than a nervous, unconfident lover. You ever see a baseball star in a slump, no matter how many swings he takes he just can’t get a hit and the longer it goes on the worse it gets? The swagger disappears and pretty soon you’re watching a shell of a man whose power has vanished – that’s what premature ejaculation does to you, it chews up confidence and spits it out.
Some guys even start to avoid dating because they fear the embarrassment and shame of cumming too quickly, desperate to avoid the humiliation they are unwittingly adding to their problem because you know what less sex means? It means that when you do eventually get down to business your cock is going to be on a hair-trigger and you’ll cum even quicker. Before you know it you can be in a downward spiral that’s pretty difficult to pull yourself out of.
Let’s Get Real, How Much Do You Truly Last? Truth time!
I’m going to lay down some truths that many of you are going to be uncomfortable hearing. What do you think classes as premature ejaculation? 30 seconds? 2 minutes? 5 minutes? Most men go for the first two answers but think anything above 2 minutes is over the threshold to be classed as premature ejaculation – guess what, they’re wrong!
Here are the uncomfortable facts; if you’re putting in performances south of 7 -10 minutes then you’re experiencing premature ejaculation – and I’m not including foreplay, I’m talking at least 7 minutes of some animal kingdom, legendary pounding.
That’s the minimum you’re aiming for and if you are falling short then it’s time to realize that you are suffering from premature ejaculation – believe me when I tell you that your girl knows! I’m only dropping these truths because it’s important for you to be honest with yourself and have an accurate idea of your performance.
What Women Think About Short Fuckers!
We all know that guys love fucking, it’s no big secret – if I wasn’t writing this right now it’s what I’d want to be doing. You know who else love fucking? Women! Women love being fucked hard and well and nothing is guaranteed to piss off a horny woman more than you cumming too quickly and leaving them unsatisfied. That’s where that look comes from – that angry, pissed off look that comes from frustration. That’s what premature ejaculation does – you deliver a dose of female blue balls and we all know how fucking annoying that is!
When you realize just how many men are affected by premature ejaculation it’s no surprise that in one of the largest sexual studies ever undertaken the main reason given for sexual distress by women was poor ejaculatory control – that’s the medical term for bad sex and frustration!
Men are never going to be comfortable talking about the humiliation that comes from premature ejaculation even though it’s such a widespread problem but it’s high time that we had a bit more honesty about how we perform and what we’re giving to the women in our lives.
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