Imagine meeting a hot new girl who’s unusually friendly with you – almost flirty, even. How can you tell if she’s just really a friendly girl by nature… or if she secretly wants you?
Here’s the thing about women – you can count on them to keep their true feelings hidden. But it’s easy to tell if she secretly wants you by watching out for these five signs…
Any of These Signs Would Give Her Away that She REALLY Likes You!
Sign #1: She Likes Being Alone With You
First of all, if she likes being alone with you, it’s a sign of interest. If she WEREN’T interested, she’d find excuses to get away from you, such as “having to meet someone” or “having to get back to my friends.”
The best case scenario is when she actually LOOKS for reasons to be alone with you. If she says, “Hey, let’s go over there,” or “Hey, come with me,” it means she wants some one-on-one time with you.
Sign #2: She Readily Rides With You
When you own a car and you offer her a ride, and she readily says “yes,” then you can bet it’s on her mind – sex, that is.
It’s been a TV trope for decades – when a girl hops into a guy’s car, something “forbidden” is bound to happen. The more readily she hops into yours, the more excited she is at the possibility. Don’t disappoint her!
By the way, this also counts for cab rides if you don’t have a car. If, say, you invite her to check out your apartment and she readily rides a cab with you, she’s game.
And speaking of your apartment…
Sign #3: She Asks About Your Place
Pay attention for when she asks about your place and living arrangements. If she particularly asks about whether you live with anyone else, that’s a clear sign she wants you.
She might lose interest if she realizes you live with roommates or (worse) your parents. But if you tell her you live on your own, and she perks up at the idea, be sure to invite her to check out your place sometime – she’ll jump on the invitation!
This is one of the reasons why your own place is a MUST for seduction. If you’re an adult and you still can’t afford your own bachelor’s pad… then you probably have bigger issues to deal with before you even try seducing women!
Sign #4: She Tells You She’s Single
The 4th sign she wants you is:
- When she tells you she’s single
- When she talks about her “bad ex-boyfriends”
- When she talks about how hard it is to find “real men” these days
- When she sings along to sad love songs
What she’s doing is DROPPING HINTS. She’s hoping that you’ll pick up and give her what she really wants… without her having to say it out loud.
Think she’s just ranting? Think again – girls rant about a lot of things, but they rarely rant about their love lives to a guy they’ve just met.
Sign #5: She Asks if You’re Taken
This is a SURE sign she wants you! A girl has no reason to ask if you’re taken, except if she’s secretly interested in becoming your girlfriend/lover.
Most times, she won’t ask about your relationship status directly. Instead, she’ll ask you a question like, “Wouldn’t your girlfriend mind?” or “What would your wife think if she saw you talking to me?” Then she’ll know whether or not you’re taken by how you respond.
What to Do If She Wants You
So let’s say you meet a hot new girl, and she’s showing one or more of the 5 signs. She clearly wants you. What should you do next?
The answer is ridiculously simple – Move forward! You got to move your interaction with her closer and closer to the sex. The faster you move, the better!
- If you’ve just met her, it might be too big a jump to invite her to your place just yet. Instead, invite her to have coffee or ice cream with you… then invite her to dinner… then invite her to your place.
- If she’s CLEARLY into you, skip the banter and invite her to your place. You can say: “It’s cold out here. Let’s go somewhere warm,” and take her to your pad or to a private room somewhere.
- Once you’re alone, kiss her within 10-15 minutes of locking the door behind you… and give her the best sex she’s had all year.
Don’t worry about moving too fast – if you are, she’ll let you know by resisting your advances. As long as she doesn’t reject you outright, don’t worry – just dial back on the intensity, and try again a few minutes later.
But if she wants you, she won’t resist – so keep moving forward, and give her what she secretly wants!